Talking about Sex

Sexual pressures that are faced by the average freshman tend to relate to having relations with girls. Not relationships. Many are delighted with this fact because it tends to be more of a right of passage ideology that incoming freshman get to just have fun and have as much sex as possible. And colleges tend to further feed this frenzy by giving out free condoms to make sure they have protected sex. Now there is nothing wrong with that, but it only makes it easier to have more sex this way. The pressures tend to be more on the women than men because if something extreme happens the women get more of the burden than men. And that fact is apart of the rules of dating, which are loosely bound together and are typically different for each person. Number one rule for me that i have known and have talked to many girls about is to never ask for or look for them online unless it is acceptable. There are exceptions to that rule but generally if you don't want to look like a stalker get to know her. and if your talking to her enough facebook or my-space discussion will come up. and you will have a chance to add her or whatever and then look. Never before though, you will run the risk of looking too possessive.

Advice for someone who is younger than me is to always stay protected no matter what happens. Because college is a place where people re-invent themselves for the better or worse. And i have seen people do some of the worst things already and im just a freshman. So i would also tell them that to never change unless you absolutely need to.